Apa itu cinta, kasih, sayang? macam macam study dah dibuat, pelbagai teori tapi satu saja yang pasti, that we cannot survive without love.
Love tu bukan limited to cinta boyfriend-girlfriend, husband-wife saja. Lebih dari tu, ibu bapa, adik beradik, saudara mara, anak beranak, kawan kawan, pets, your belonging, your belief, dan yang terpenting - love to the Almighty.
Apa pun your thoughts or interpretation, for sure LOVE is definitely NOT...
Manipulation. "If you loved me, then you would..."
Compromising who you are. If someone asks you to do or say something that isn't in your nature, that isn't true love. Although love does involve compromises between partners, someone who is in love with you will never ask you to change who you are in order to be loved.
Violent. Passions can definitely become inflamed with someone you love, but a relationship with physical or emotional violence isn't true love.
Just lust. Yes, chemistry and physical attraction are important, but true love also includes commitment,
Lagi fakta menarik yang ditemui :
LOVE CAN IMPROVE YOUR HEALTH!!
Interesting eh? with the right partners la kot, kalau dapat yang perangainya macam...., alamatnya hmmm
"Love can be good for your health. If you are married, or happily cohabiting, in the long term you will suffer from less depression and live significantly longer than those who are single, divorced or widowed. But to get the full health benefits, you have to pick the correct partner", kata Dr Raj Persaud dalam Simply Irresistible, the Psychology of Seduction.
Journal of Marriage and the Family pulak melalui kajian yang telah dibuat selamat 10 tahun ; "the danger is gender-specific: among men, marital loss has a negligible effect on the risk of heart disease."
Kajian US-based Veterans Affairs group found that ; "marital dissolution can significantly increase their risk of suffering mental and physical health problems. The risk is highest among younger women who described their marriages as 'harmonious'".
Wow, mmg dasyatlah penangan chenta nih.
Love is blind? itu bukan hanya perumpamaan semata tau, dah scientifically proven pon. Scientists have discovered that certain parts of the brain become deactivated when we're in love, including areas linked with negative emotions, planning, critical social assessment, the evaluation of trustworthiness and fear.
Nak share sikit my way of chenta kasih sayang, simple je...
Kalau dia tak de, kita rindu rinduan...sob, sob, sob :(
Budak ni rindu nak jumpa daddy (ke mak dia yang over? :p)
Thanks to the technology, ada skype sbg penganti diri :D
Even bende tu kita tak suka buat pun, tapi akan digagahi jugaklah, contoh; saya memang tak suka drive jejauh, tapi chenta hati punya pasal, dalam penat penat, ku gagahi jua bawak kereta sampai KLIA
Ada yang sampai tertidur tidur
1 jam lepak di KLIA tgk kapal terbang sementara nak tunggu flight daddy
Muka anak-anak yang excited nak jemput daddy, baru 5 hari je kot kita tak jumpa
Ini muka excited sebab daddy balik ke atau sebab dapat souvenier? confuse kejap
That's sikit sneak peek cara we all show our love. It ain't smooth sailing all the way, but hey, that's what makes you stronger kan.
Berdoa banyak banyak agar rasa kasih sayang ni tak padam dan kami sekeluarga bahagia, aman damai sentiasa hingga ke akhir hayat. Amin.
-Che Lynn
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